If the outcome is disconnected from the experience of the actual engagement, which it usually is, than there is no shared truth from which to operate. So, when a conversation is fear-based, the benefit will go only to the most superior manipulator. If all in the party are harmoniously connected, than the conversation can become a "play" where the creativity of each participant interacts and an optimum outcome can emerge. Its not a "capitalist" interaction vs. a "communist" interaction, but rather an interaction full of lables and distinctions as compared to an interaction that does not let labels and distinctions interfere with the actual, living relationship between two or more participants.
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